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Death, Aging, Disability & Activism:
Keep making beauty and good trouble in this world in any way you are able.
Dina Stander
Aug 26, 20244 min read
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On Wayfinding, Embodiment, & Death's Door: a celebration of life
Sometimes, to find my way I go and do and risk.
Dina Stander
Jun 27, 20246 min read
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Turning Soil
Friendship between women busy raising children is whole-cloth woven from interrupted conversations sewn together with threads of goodwill...
Dina Stander
May 13, 20233 min read
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Gently Down the Stream
photo by Noe Fornells @Unsplash Update from the Gently Down the Stream Department: I have been writing a lot of funerals... when I am...
Dina Stander
Apr 16, 20232 min read
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Soft Time: the handmade shrouds of Dina Stander
A remarkable conversation about the work and why of shrouding with documentary film maker Jan Sturman.
Dina Stander
Sep 7, 20211 min read
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Visiting the Phone of the Wind in Provincetown
A wind phone booth is one of those magical places that, without fail, is bigger on the inside than it is on the outside.
Dina Stander
Apr 30, 20215 min read
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tikkun olam ~ mending the world
Resolve obstacles ~ reduce suffering. In this way the world is mended.
Dina Stander
Apr 21, 20211 min read
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kvelling
I wander out and bend into mercy, pushing away leaves to find a purple coyote amongst the detritus.
Dina Stander
Mar 12, 20210 min read
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Tender Bits
Some things just cannot be fixed. The trick is finding a way to let off the steam, learning to heal without a cure.
Dina Stander
Mar 7, 20215 min read
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Safe home Lawrence Ferlinghetti ~ 2/23/21
... he was hanging something up on a wall, pounding a nail, laughing, he looked over his shoulder at the camera. There was a spark.
Dina Stander
Feb 23, 20211 min read
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On Radical Kinship
Radical kinship, acting from the heart of our relationship with all things, is the best way I know to wake myself from numbness.
Dina Stander
Feb 17, 20211 min read
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Considering VSED: voluntarily stopping eating & drinking
A curated selection of videos, information and resources about the decision and experience of VSED at end of life.
Dina Stander
Feb 8, 20215 min read
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Both/And Physics ~ Holding On & Letting Go
... and then figure out how I can best support the peculiar both/and physics of holding on ~ so you can let go.
Dina Stander
Dec 30, 20203 min read
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How to Leave the Hospital...
... when getting home feels like a matter of life and death.
Dina Stander
Dec 21, 20205 min read
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A Solstice Ramble on Shadows and Loss
I am watching a winter sunset and welcoming the evening after a big snow. More than a foot fell. The woods are quiet. I woke up with my...
Dina Stander
Dec 17, 20203 min read
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poem: just asking
after ... when it is safe
Dina Stander
Nov 25, 20201 min read
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As Death Becomes Us
A meditation about our end-of-life is not the same as being our own Endling. Death is a trickster in traveling shoes. We do our best.
Dina Stander
Sep 11, 20205 min read
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Poem: shout!
sometimes I feel
the weight of what
is yet to come
and instead of
pushing it off
I open my heart
Dina Stander
Aug 17, 20201 min read
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Waiting for the Drought to Break
There is nothing quite as exquisite as anticipating spine surgery. You know that you will wake up feeling like you got kicked by a horse.
Dina Stander
Aug 4, 20203 min read
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Prayer to Bless the Earth Receiving Burials at Hart Island
May each breath be a solace and may remembering bring a blessing.
Dina Stander
Apr 20, 20202 min read
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